“I am too wild.”
“I’m stupid.”These beliefs inform your actions:
“I am going to tone-it-down, meaning I am going to conform myself so that no one really sees me and I don’t take attention from anyone else.”
“I’ll never find a life partner. Who would love me looking like this?”
“I went for a great job interview but why would they hire me?”And then your actions create your reality.
There are many different practices, rituals and flower essences that will support the healing of these past experiences that continuously contribute to your life. Now, again, your Maiden also brings the BEST to your life. These suggestions are more for the places that you wish to bring into Wholeness, that you know are holding you back from living your Soul’s mission…..
1. Fuschia Hibiscus Flower Essence
When doing Inner Child Work, it is so important to connect to that part of yourself that is already Whole and Pristine. She knows so much. She can inform you of what she felt in the past and what she needs right now to come into a greater space of safety (making your life much easier and more in flow). Taking this Flower Essence will absolutely bring you into connection with who you are and who you always have been, deep at your core. Your own version of the image above (pink onesie romper with pink roller skates and hands on hips with huge smile)!
Also, as adults, we tend to be VERY serious. It’s crazy! We don’t often let ourselves let loose… This Flower Essence will bring a childlike joy into your life.
2. Create Ritual space and Call in your Maiden.
If there is a specific life experience/situation you are wishing to have more clarity about, she can assist you. For example, let’s say you carry a memory of a time that invokes a lot of anger or sadness or any type of emotional pain. Ask to connect to your Maiden and then begin asking her questions about this time to help you repair and release the ties that are holding you back in your life, rooted in that moment. As you ask questions, write them down. Don’t think… just write. Ask her what she needs to release this.
Be very patient with this process.Your Maiden may be very talkative and it may take her some time to open up and share with you. Gentleness and compassion are key components of this practice.
3. Playdates with your Maiden!
Take time out each week or every other week during this season to hang with your Maiden. Ask her what she wants to do, who she wants to spend time with. As adults (and women who have a lot of responsibilities), it is easy to focus on the never-ending to-do list rather than spending time on enjoying this epic experience of life. Your Maiden knows how to have fun. Turn off your adult mind. Set aside an afternoon or a couple of hours. Ask her what she wants to do. Be open to what she has to share. And then IN-JOY!
If you feel inspired to share your experience with any of these rituals we’d love for you to share in the comments below or in our private and safe Facebook group.
May the power of your Maiden bring you harmony during this season of Spring…
And Remembering the Ways of the Feminine™,